Sunday, February 8, 2009

ABC of Parenting

ABC of Parenting

A ~ Always trust your children to Allah's care.
B ~ Bring them to the Masaajids.
C ~ Challenge them to high goals In deen.
D ~ Delight in their achievements "Masha`Allah"
E ~ Exalt Allah in their presence "Subhaan`Allah"
F ~ Frown on evil " Astaghfirullah"
G ~ Give them love and understanding
H ~ Hear their problems, be there for them.
I ~ Ignore not their childish fears, tel them Allah is Always there.
J ~Joyfully accept their apologies, Allah is All Forgiving.
K ~ Keep their confidence.
L ~ Live a good example before them, Islamic ettiquettes.
M ~ Make them your friends.
N ~ Never ignore their endless questions!
O ~ Open your heart to their love.
P ~ Pray for them by name, ...May Allah make them the coolness of your eyes.
Q ~ Quicken your interest in their spirituality, Dhikrullah (rememberance of Allah)
R ~ Remember their needs, show mercy to them
S ~ Show them the way of Our Prophet Muhammad and his companions. (peace be upon them All)
T ~ Teach them to appreciate every little in life. "Alhamdulillah"
U ~ Understand they are still young and Innocent. "Fitrah"
V ~ Verify your statements, speak clearly (Repeat it 3 times) like the way Prophet Muhammad {peace be upon him} used to.
W ~ Wean them from bad company.
X ~ eXpect them to obey, Allah and their parents,
Y ~ Yearn for Allah's best for them.
Z ~ Zealously guide them in the Qur'aan and Sunnah.
Insha'Allah Ameen ya Rabbul `alameen

1 comment:


Amanat yang bagus sama sekali...
Moga kita yang bakal jadi ibu bapa ni berpandu padanya. Membajai pemuda pemudi islam yang memegang takhta masa hadapan. Allahuakbar!